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Paternal Instinct (Documentary)

This documentary is nearly twenty years old now, and it follows a gay couple as they navigate the stressful and exciting journey of their first pregnancy through surrogacy. You get to see it all— the hope, the nerves, and the dramatic hurdles they have to clear along the way. Back in the day, this was probably a massive deal, but since I’ve known a few gay couples who’ve gone through this exact process, some parts felt a bit dated to me. I liked bits and pieces of it, but I also felt like the film stays pretty surface-level. It doesn't really dive into the deep, complicated reality of life after the baby actually arrives. If only raising a kid were actually as simple as this movie makes it look! Erik and Mark have been together in New York for ten years, and since they feel solid in their relationship, they decide they’re ready to raise a child. They start the hunt for a surrogate and eventually connect with Wen, a wife and mom from Maine who agrees to carry the baby for a standard...

Beyond Gay: The Politics of Pride (Documentary)

This documentary came back in 2009 where before the 30th anniversary, Vancouver's Gay Pride Parade director Ken Coolen, examines relevance of Pride celebrations internationally. He travels to places where Pride is steeped in protest to experience the powerful oppression that still exists. Pride is more than a parade, it's a giant step on the road to equality.

Ken Coolen recognizes that the ride celebrations had started to overshadow the whole activism situation at the pride parades and hence he decides to travel to places like Sri Lanka, Moscow, Poland, Canada to understand what its like there. He finds the situation a lot different in Sri Lanka, where just flying the rainbow flag can get you 10 years in jail or the lesbians are sometimes subjected to "conversion rapes". In Poland, where the European Court only recently ruled that pride celebration must be legalized, Coolen encounters anti-gay violence first-hand, as hoards of Catholics (mostly young men) angrily stomp their feet in protest of the burgeoning GLBT rights movement. Then things get really exciting in Moscow, where Russian activists must resort to skullduggery to pull off a 10-minute demonstration. He also visits places like Brazil, Switzerland, where things aren't bad and have legalized gay rights and parade marches. The film concludes with the fascinating case study of Toronto. Because Canada's GLBT movement has achieved most of its legislative victories, the organizers asked themselves: what do we march for now? The answer, they decided, was to march for international GLBT rights, highlighting the countries, and the GLBT people who live in them, who do not yet have the benefit of legal victories.

Beyond Gay: The Politics of Pride isn't saying anything particularly new or revolutionary, and sometimes it falls back on cliches and gay rights. It also ignores the many divisive issues that surround pride: the sexualization of the parades, but is still an an earnest and appealing look at the broader issue of pride. There are many other incredible stories, inspiring and deeply moving, throughout the 85-minute run time of Beyond Gay. One Jamaican man, Gareth Henry, talks of the many killings of gay men in Jamaica. There is a legitimate debate about whether corporations have any place in a Pride Parade. The documentary raises, but does not deal with in any depth, the question that has begun being debated openly about the kind of events that Pride has turned into in Western Europe, the Americas and Australia. Growing out of political struggles for GLBT rights, they have morphed into large scale commercial events that often bring in substantial tourist dollars. Also, what can western countries with more LGBT rights could do to help those that don't or how we could solve any of the other problems the film raised. (5/10)

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