This documentary is nearly twenty years old now, and it follows a gay couple as they navigate the stressful and exciting journey of their first pregnancy through surrogacy. You get to see it all— the hope, the nerves, and the dramatic hurdles they have to clear along the way. Back in the day, this was probably a massive deal, but since I’ve known a few gay couples who’ve gone through this exact process, some parts felt a bit dated to me. I liked bits and pieces of it, but I also felt like the film stays pretty surface-level. It doesn't really dive into the deep, complicated reality of life after the baby actually arrives. If only raising a kid were actually as simple as this movie makes it look! Erik and Mark have been together in New York for ten years, and since they feel solid in their relationship, they decide they’re ready to raise a child. They start the hunt for a surrogate and eventually connect with Wen, a wife and mom from Maine who agrees to carry the baby for a standard...
Eric, a budding musician, is preparing for an important audition and his teacher is not really happy with his progress. The day gets worse when traveling in bus, a ruffian Lyokha simply takes Erik’s headphones and phone, leaving his keychain behind. Even though Eric's teacher advised him proper rest, he decides to spend a night with his boyfriend(?) and his other gay friends all night drinking. Lyokha uses Erik’s stolen cell phone to get hold of Eric and ask him to return his keychain. This brings the two together again and initiates an uneasy dance of sorts in which both characters start to realize they might be attracted to the other or at least want to spend more time in each other’s company, probably exactly because they seem to be polar opposites.
It’s clear from the get-go that their their attraction is as much based on their contrasting backgrounds and class differences as on their shared loneliness. Eric is gay for sure which we know at the every beginning, but Lyokha's feelings come more as a surprise, since he probably hasn't seen any affection by anyone in the past. The two lead actors are also the co-directors of this film , but the shaky camerawork and low budget with shots mostly in dark wintry nights over the course of two days is something that I just couldn't connect with. As actors they are both charismatic and do a good job but how I wish that was enough to hold my attention. I tried my best to connect with story, the characters or anything, but either I wasn't in the right frame of mind, or I am definitely missing something. This independent film has received some glaring reviews online and I wonder what is it that I can't see in it that everyone else is. Maybe someone here can help me. (3/10)
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