Skip to main content

Overcompensating (Web Series)

Comedian and content creator Benito Skinner writes, produces and stars in this sex-filled eight-episode look at coming out and finding yourself after high school. This Amazon prime series came a few weeks back and has been trending. I will be the first to an admit, like I do most time, I have no idea who Benito Skinner is. It's only when I started to watch the show and wanted to know about the actors, this is what I found. With 8 episodes of about 35-40 minutes each, I went in with quite high expectations and I am sad to say that by the end of it I was quite underwhelmed.

We meet Benny, a former high school football hero and homecoming king who is struggling to accept that he is gay, let alone share his sexuality with anyone around him. Deep down he knows he is attracted to guys but he has deeply buried his sexuality under the weight of social pressure. He is now joining college at Yates where his older sister Grace and her boyfriend Peter. Peter immediately takes Benny under his wing, a committed bro’s bro, who initiates Benny into college life. According to Peter, the rules dictate that Benny has to get laid on his first night, or essentially he’ll be doomed for the rest of his time at Yates. Benny meets Carmen, another freshman and they both init off well. She is also feeling the pressure of getting laid on the first night by her roommate. They try but eventually just hangout and become very close friends. A very handsome boy Miles catches Benny's eyes and he secretly crushes on him, but at the same time he anxiously avoids making any eye contacts with openly gay folks in the campus. As the year continues, he keeps going into the closet even deeper, with his on again off again relationship/friendship with Carmen being the center. He also joins Yates’ hyper-bro elite secret society, Flesh and Gold alongwith Miles and they strike a very close friendship. Benny feels a romantic spark here with Miles and is very heartbroken to find that he is straight. Meanwhile Peter/Grace are going through their own issues and Carmen ends up sleeping with Peter a few times. Eventually Carmen also becomes first person that Benny finally confesses that he is gay. They both try to find a boy for Benny to hookup with, but with failed tries. When the whole gang goes back home for thanksgiving, thats when we are told how one of Benny's school friends was very close to him and they had a connection but when that guy tried to kiss Benny, he freaked out and snubbed him. And now when they meet again Benny apologizes and finally has his first kiss. 

The central theme of the show is the deep friendship of Benny with Carmen, with Benny struggling about his sexuality. The two are pretty much allover the show and a lot of their scenes together are funny and poignant at the same time. Apparently the series is inspired from Benito's real life experiences. You have to watch the show as multiple events keep happening with Carmen and Benny navigating through college life. I was really hoping we will see something between Miles and Benny, but that soon fizzles out. It turns out Miles was really just looking for a close friend, which Benny confused for love. It happens. The lead actor is hot, handsome and charming; except I just found his acting a little over the top. And don't get me wrong. I understand this show is supposed to be OTT but just something about him that did not connect with me. Carmen and Grace's female perspective in this college show gives it a nice new dimension. The show very clearly shows us that there is an out community at Yates, and that Benny’s barriers to exit from the closet are mostly internal hang-ups, that he will have to work with. Benny is anxious and anyone dealing with so much change would be, but his fear leads him to treat people badly, which further complicates the viewer’s feelings about his journey. Ultimately, no one is really bad or good all the time, “Overcompensating” seems to tell us—we are all operating out of fear, especially in college. The show isn’t perfect. Benny’s one-step-forward, two-steps-back journey out of the closet gets wearisome and starts ti create a drag on the story pacing. And the comedy sometimes got too crass for my personal likings. Peter is another very important character here. He is loud, funny, man'a man, secret society head but also internally looking for that love. I believe in future seasons we will see more character development and also because season one ends in almost a cliffhanger where Carmen ends up kissing Miles. I am still rooting for Miles and Benny to eventually become a couple. 

I feel like my definition of humor and comedy has evolved over the years and this show wasn't bad per se but I would say it was really funny. It had its moments but it also had its flaws. Hopefully the follow up seasons would be better as we would see Benny's growth and his acceptance of his sexuality. For this season, most comedy came from the toxic brand of bro-sculinity while humanizing characters that at first seem like caricatures. (6/10)

Comments

@UdegbunamChuks said…
I thought I was having a bad day when I binged this. 😂😂The hype was uunecessary.
Golu said…
Thank god, I was not alone!! I was starting to wonder at my own choices of content

Popular posts from this blog

The Shortest Distance is Round 3: Fallen Flowers

Continuing with the weird trilogy of "The Shortest Distance", I am so glad that finally I am done with part 3 and won't have to deal with this again in future. Thankfully, as of now the makers have not announced any further parts; which will save all of us on this earth from the embarrassment of watching this in near future. After the first 10 minutes are used in sort of recapping bits of first two parts, the story moves forward. Haruto is now starting to have feelings for Ruka, the mysterious pole dancer from second part. In a fit of rage, Ruka ends up killing the goat man and to save him and Haruto, Shibahara asks them to go underground. Meanwhile Shibahara continues the search for Seiya (the guy who had cut off Haruto's penis). It turns out Seiya is now also taking care of the original club owner from part 1. Both of them were released after they had informed Shibahara of Aoyama's secret location. Shibahara tortures Seiya's boyfriend leading to Seiya killin...

Sei no Gekiyaku (Japanese) [Dangerous Drugs of Sex]

Every person has their own unique way of dealing with loss. This film is as much a psychological thriller as it is a soft porn BDSM portrayal of two young men that makes the film overall horrifying as well as humane. It is really hard to describe the genre of this film in one word. Its important not that the film has some really disturbing scenes so if you go into seeing this film, please proceed with caution. Although any sexual non-consensual activity is not ok, this film has its won strange way of showing that suicide is not the only solution to all life's problems. Makoto is a regular office goer, who just finds out that his girlfriend is probably cheating on him. ON top of it, his parents sudden death coming back from a trip that he forced them to take, he gets completely dejected and decides to commit suicide. Unknown to him, he is saved by mysterious man Yoda Ryoji, and he wakes up finding himself tied up in leather and belts in a very BDSM setting. This mysterious saver soo...

One Summer Night (Korean)

I really wanted to like this film but for non native speakers, these movie leaves a lot to be understood and the way scenes were unfolding in front of me, I wasn't sure many times what was really going on. The story had potential button getting any back story on any of the characters limited my ability to empathize with any of these actors. Film starts with two North Korea military guys Yong Joon and Jae Sung having sex and they are caught red handed and they run. Three years later we see Yong Joon in Seoul leading a very mundane and poor life. He has a boyfriend Tae-Kyu, who is a weird guy. He is carefree, doesn't do any work and is completely emotional and financially dependent on Young Joon. In fact, even Yong Joon will go to any lengths to protect him , fend for him and taking care of him to the extent of even taking up prostitution. Suddenly one day Jae Sung appears in their life again. His motivation is not clear but it is obvious he wants Yong Joon back in his life, who ...