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When I'm Sixty-Four (UK)

This film reminded me a lot of the Hong Kong film Suk Suk, which was also about growing love between two elderly man. Of course, this film came much before Suk Suk and also differently executed, but at the core of it, you can't help but think of the similar setup. BBC has given us some interesting made for TV films and commentaries involving queer storyline and this is another one of those stories where the message is that you are never too old to make changes in your life.

We are introduced to our two protagonists. Ray is retired can driver, but also an aging footie thug who loves to get involved in brawls. He has two kids and multiple grandchildren. His kids are very much part of life, but ever since his wife died few years back, he lives on his own and his family and friends are his only company. And then we have Jim, who has just retired from teaching in a public school where he was also a student. Fate brings them together when Ray takes Jim from school in his cab on the retirement day. Jim has always had a single , shelter life and has only two things h wants to drafter retirement: Travel the world and fall in love. Ray, because of his own loneliness and his children using him as a babysitter, strike an unlikely friendship with Jim , especially after Jim's father has a stroke; despite their very different demeanor. Ray even jokes if Jim was gay to which he accepts that he may be. We see them growing closer to one another, till Ray tells us how he was once kissed by a boy in school and son enough their friendship turns into a romantic relationship. Jim is happy to have found love, but when reality settles in of what kids will think, Ray holds his feelings and tells Jim thatches won't work. Its only in the end when Jim comes to say goodbye to Ray, he realizes that he has spent a lot fo time thinking of hat people would think, and its time he learns to live his life for himself.

The BBC drama took what is still a thorny subject and treated it with class and sensitivity, with very well written script, daft direction and some good sensitive acting. I felt the relationship between the two men developed very organically and believably. You could feel their loneliness driving them closer together. It was also interesting to see how different their lives were. One was completely surrounded by family and had many friends but was still lonely, whereas Jim has always been a loner and a single guy with pretty much no friends. The friendship when turns to romance is also shown very nicely and sensitively. The ending was a bit rushed and I would have liked to see the impact or reactions of the family, but having said that, who cares for others, when the two men think they can enjoy each other's company and travel the world. All the threads of the story are brought together effectively and carefully whilst its potentially controversial scenes are handled with sensitivity. I would quite highly recommend this little known gem of a film, that tugs your heart and reiterated the faith in love and that it can happen to anyone, anytime. (7/10)

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