The series starts with Otto's boyfriend Boris returning from a 3 month trip, and breaks up citing that Otto needs more fun and Boris is bored of his mundane life. Otto lives in the huge apartment by his grandmother, hasn't renovated the place, as if he is stuck in time loop. This breakup comes as a shocker to him and he is not ready to move on. His best girlfriend Lente suggests Grindr. Otto is new to Grindr and creates a new identity and starts to hook up, gets to experience the surprisingly vibrant (and at times, chaotic) queer nightlife of Brussels, filled with everything from drag performances to leather bars and, oh yes, dark room hookups. His idea was to meet Boris to reconnect but he has moved on. Otto is also a psychologist and an unprofessional encounter with a patient in a bathhouse means he is fired from his job. If this is all not enough, his best friend Lente is moving to countryside with her boyfriend. We have one full episode each dedicated to Otto thinking he found the perfect new guy, a romantic musician who turns out was just a weekend fling and then on Lente who ends up sleeping with a bartender because she doesn't know what she wants from life (just like Otto).
Oh, Otto! is the show we’ve been missing in an era where queer representation on TV is growing but still lacks depth and nuance in the mature, adult drama department. It’s not all about heartwarming coming-out stories or tragic, overly sanitized tales of gay love. It’s about the grit and glamour of life, the struggles and the fun, the realness of being an adult in today’s queer world. We get to see the messiness, the vulnerability, and of course the skin. The show is unflinching in its depiction of adult queer experiences: Otto’s forays into the city’s drag shows, leather bars, and anonymous darkroom hookups are depicted with both sensitivity and candor, offering a rare focus on mature gay themes and the messy, beautiful process of post-breakup self-reinvention. The actors are all gorgeously handsome. The Otto actor with that mustache is just jaw dropping handsome. Every single shot if his and I would think, how can this guy be so gorgeous with perfect jawline and a face like that. And his act of a kid in a grown man's body who is happy with how boring he is and mundane things like hanging out with Lente is what he enjoys. He doesn't want to party and be out and about and that is ok. The weekend fling middle eastern guy or even Boris was quite deliciously charming. Lente as the best friend is something we all hope for in our life. The landscape is still too sparse when it comes to mature LGBTQ+ stories, especially ones that explore complex relationships beyond the teenage coming-out narrative. As much as I enjoy all the Asian BL series, a mature and relatable story is what was missing (think G&T). Whats great about the show is that it steers clear of stereotypes and instead delving into the realities of navigating love, loss, and friendship as a young gay man in a rapidly changing world.
Oh, Otto! is gritty, real, and unapologetically adult. It’s the kind of series that makes you feel seen—both in your awkward moments and in your steamy ones. It’s the reminder that love isn’t always tidy, but it’s always worth the mess. Maybe the next one needs to be Ew, David!! Till then, this series is an absolute must watch. (8.5/0)
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