This documentary is nearly twenty years old now, and it follows a gay couple as they navigate the stressful and exciting journey of their first pregnancy through surrogacy. You get to see it all— the hope, the nerves, and the dramatic hurdles they have to clear along the way. Back in the day, this was probably a massive deal, but since I’ve known a few gay couples who’ve gone through this exact process, some parts felt a bit dated to me. I liked bits and pieces of it, but I also felt like the film stays pretty surface-level. It doesn't really dive into the deep, complicated reality of life after the baby actually arrives. If only raising a kid were actually as simple as this movie makes it look! Erik and Mark have been together in New York for ten years, and since they feel solid in their relationship, they decide they’re ready to raise a child. They start the hunt for a surrogate and eventually connect with Wen, a wife and mom from Maine who agrees to carry the baby for a standard...
Wakefield Poole was born in 1936. He was a very good singer in his childhood but when he reached puberty and his voice cracked, he got into dancing, ballet and theatre. As you would imagine, life soon took him to New York where he became a very famous broadway performer. During one of his visits in 70s to Fire Island he realized his eye for film making and together with his then boyfriend Peter, he made a gay erotic film, Boys in the Sand. He subsequently made a lot of "erotica" films. He still refuses to call them porn. Some of them succeeded and others didn't. He was surprisingly open about his lifestyle and sexuality. He also became internationally famous and his movies screened for years as examples of films that could be artistic as well as sexually explicit. He stopped making films after the AIDS situation.
I am guessing a lot of people like me may not be familiar with the name Wakefield Poole. But this documentary does provide a good insight who he was and why his films were so important, especially in the gay community. He did something that no one else was doing back in 70s for gay men in terms of erotica films. It was interesting to see Poole getting emotional about a lot of memories from all his days like how he got into dancing, when he came to New York, when he made hs first film and all that. Poole gets a lot of screen time to just talk about his life and work directly to the camera. It’s a simple approach, sometimes long, but obviously a very passionate artist and a person who is just a joy to spend time with.
Documentaries are not meant for entertainment but I have to agree that I did learn something about a film maker, a guy who pioneered the whole advent of erotica for gays and subsequently led the way to porn. (5/10)
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